We think this is the best all around harness you can find.  There are a few of our harnesses out there that have been used professionally (as in a lot) for over four years and are still going strong.  They are stiff where they need to be and soft & pliable where it matters. The front holds dildos with O rings (3 sizes included) but also has a hole through the base if you prefer to push it through.  The back is padded and corseted for extra comfort and adjustment,  The soft double groin straps are adjustable both on separation and length.  Dildo not included.